Thursday, July 19, 2012

My Connections to Play



“You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.” Plato
“Play is the only way the highest intelligence of humankind can unfold.” Joseph Chilton Pearce
When I was a small child we went outside and ran through the woods, challenged bridges that are much to scary as an adult for me to cross and was chased by neighbors for pretending we were spies and writing down their license plate numbers. My days of play started out in an apartment complex ventured into living in the woods with box turtles and ending by moving into the city. My play was supported  by neighbors and friends. My mother would let us out of the house and was told to come back before it was dark. There was a man in a truck that stopped off at the park in the middle of the day that would give you a sandwich and a juice. You sat in the grass, peeled the plastic off the Styrofoam plate and squeeze mustard  from a foil pouch. My play involved my friends, enemies and just the streets. We would wander into the local businesses and get free pieces or learn how to lazer writing on the sides of trophies. Play is different now. It is much more organized and there are more adults in charge. We were free to climb trees, hop fences and now everything is alot safer. We learned to work out problems, make freeze pops from juice and toothpicks in an ice cube tray. Now a days you don't see as much creativity. There are more electronics and there are more things bought. I don't think that I ever stopped playing. This is why I have a job as an after school teacher. I tell my kids the stories of when I was a child and we would sneak into these after school programs and watch these children play basketball, make giant tissue flowers. I thought this must be the most incredible job in the world. So I achieved one of my dreams. I remember what it's like to be a kid; sneaky and misunderstood. I try to incorporate as many social based games in my room as I can as well as letting them play the electronic. I don't think I ever gave up on playing. I just got old.

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Relationship Reflection






  • Relationships are like road maps. You spend time with these people and you develop these really amazing pathways of who you are to who are becoming. They remind you of things that are important in your life and who you are. These relationships grow with you and throughout the years when sometimes you lose contact with these people, they still live in you. This is why they are important to me. I need them just for mere survival.
  • Positive relationships in my life right now is my husband. I am 38 and I have been with him since I was 20. This is something else that is truly amazing to me. Not only loving someone for almost half your life but also living with them. I am also in a relationship with my two dogs. Each has a story of where they came from and how we met. Each has a unique personality that sometimes I only understand. Each dog was unwanted at some point in their life.
  • My husband is my grounding base. I am kinda a free spirit with to many ideas and plans. Each feels like a really great one until I try to implement it and things fall away. Still he believes in me. He knows when to intervene an when to let the story play out. Our relationship is important because of the growth factor. We have both changed so much through out the years and I get really excited to think about what is in the future
  • I believe in relationships that some are permanent and some are fleeting. There are lessons to be learned from everyone that you meet in life. This is what life is about. You create these beautiful experiences and meet these really interesting people, you open yourself up ( sometimes to be hurt) and let yourself go. In relationships you learn to forgive yourself, live in the moment and you take this throughout your journey.
  • A partnership of any kind is never 50/50. I think when you love anyone or anything, you are more willing to sacrifice and want to see others achieve their dreams more than you want to achieve your own. If the relationship is right, the other person wants to see you do the same.
  • I say every year that I open my heart to these children, love them, care for them knowing that one day they will grow up and move away. I will never forget them though.